Who You Gonna Call?

March 14, 2011

Rotary TelephoneNo, I don’t call the Ghost Busters. When I have an hour to kill, I call my mother.

My mother and I live 7 hours from each other and she doesn’t text, Tweet, Facebook or Skype, so the phone is our main source of communication.

(P.S. She just got a camera phone last month. She loves it.)

And when we do talk, our conversations are rarely under an hour. It’s funny that we can say goodbye 3 or 4 times before we actually hang up the phone. One of us will say we have to get off the phone and the other continues to talk.

While our conversations aren’t usually earth-shattering, there is comfort in consistency. And there are some things that never change. We always:

  1. Talk about the weather
  2. Talk about the family and our dog
  3. Mom catches me up on all the town gossip
    (I swear she makes a list, so she can remember to tell me everything.)

But I’ve gotta say, there’s nothing better than hour-long conversations with mom where we hardly say a thing but say so much all at the same time. That’s the beauty of being best friends with your mom. You can have a whole conversation without saying much at all.

And let’s face it. No matter how old a woman gets, she still needs her mom.

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Tiffany March 16, 2011 at 9:09 pm

My mom and I are the same way. I’m a BIG mama’s girl!

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This Wife March 16, 2011 at 9:54 pm

Me too! Seriously, no matter how old you get, you still need your mom.

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Kimberly March 17, 2011 at 12:17 am

I found you through SITS and am now following! I love this post. My mom & used to be best friends. Lately we’ve drifted far, far apart & it breaks my heart. I’m trying to get back to where we were and this post brought tears to my eyes. I have hope, so thank you!

Also? We must live semi-close to each other, given your GLO post below!

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misty March 17, 2011 at 10:40 am

I LOVE this… conversations with my birth mom are the same way… :) I wrote about 10 things my mom taught me. hopefully you’ll come check it out!

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Heidi Smith Luedtke March 17, 2011 at 11:15 am

I called my grandma yesterday for just this reason. It’s funny that we have similar topics, and we say goodbye several times before hanging up. Isn’t it wonderful to have such a comfortable relationship to reach out to?

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Mandy March 17, 2011 at 11:47 am

Great post! It’s funny that we can live so far apart and still be “mama’s girls”, mine is 800 miles away. I have friends that have either lost their mother or are not close and that just hurts my heart. Stopping by from Mama Kat’s.

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Dana K March 17, 2011 at 12:14 pm

I’ve already called Mama twice..this morning..

Great post!

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Mrs. Jen B March 17, 2011 at 1:51 pm

My husband asks me every day if I called my mom, and if so what the latest gossip is ;) She’s always good for at least one family story worth retelling!

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Georgia Girls March 17, 2011 at 4:32 pm

Those who have good relationships with their mothers can count their blessings! I don’t live close to my mother and I know not having her a phone call away will be the thing to create unexpected meltdowns when she does pass.
Stopping by from Mama Kat’s

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Rhea March 17, 2011 at 5:40 pm

My mom is my best friend and lives right next door…but we will still talk on the phone for hours.

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jackie March 19, 2011 at 12:09 am

I LOVE this post because it reminds me of me and my mom!! I call her for anything, and she just lives 5 minutes away. My husband doesn’t understand how we could have much to talk about on the phone especially when I see her or talk to her almost every day. I’ve tried explaining, but he’ll never understand.

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